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International Travel
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Domestic traveling With - and Without - the Breastfed Baby
Can Baby Come?
Making the decision to travel with your baby
Domestic traveling With Baby:
By Car, By
Plane, By
Bus, By
Train
Domestic traveling Without Baby:
Drawbacks
To Leaving Baby? What does mom need to know?
Preparation for Mom
Preparation for Baby
By Car, By
Plane, By
Bus, By
Train
Shipping
Breastmilk, Dry
Ice, Coolers
"Necessary
Stuff" (things to consider taking when traveling with baby)
Returning Home:
The Reconnection
Links
The mere thought of traveling with - or without
- baby can be almost overwhelming for mom and dad. This is especially
true if mom has to return to work and is called out of town on business
and she cannot bring baby along. In all circumstances where public
transportation systems (bus, train, plane, etc.) are used, it is
wise to find out before hand what the local policies are for traveling
with infants and children, as well as transporting breastmilk when
mother is traveling alone. Knowing policies beforehand helps avoid
many misunderstandings and unfortunate occurrences.
This info may help parents who need to consider
traveling options with - or without baby.
Can Baby Come?
Because the circumstances of each family are very
different, there cannot be a "blanket" solution. Each
situation must be evaluated individually, and all things considered.
Things that might be necessary to really question
or discuss:
1) Can the trip be postponed?
If this is a pleasure trip, can the trip wait a
few months? If the trip is business, can the employer reschedule,
or can another employee go instead?
2) Can baby go?
There arise occasions, like weddings, retirement
parties, and graduations, where an invitation is received but there
is a postscript that says, "No children allowed". For
some parents, the solution to this is simple: If baby can't go,
we don't go. It is perfectly appropriate to return a note expressing
your regrets about not being able to attend, saying simply that
it is not possible at this time to leave home. A healthy family
will understand and respect your feelings.
Another option is to take baby on the trip, along
with a someone who can be with baby while the parents attend the
function, then all are together again after the function. Sometimes
this means that the caregiver can bring baby to a wedding reception,
or to dinner, or to a party following the graduation or retirement
celebration, but not attend the formal part of the occasion itself.
Or the family can opt to reconnect after the function at the hotel.
Some hotels provide childcare services. Be sure
to check into this as an option as well.
Don't hesitate to suggest bringing baby along,
using a sling, or stroller, or even have a caregiver at the function
to remain with baby nearby (same building).
Be creative when coming up with ideas on what would
work to enable baby to come and family to remain together. Jot down
ideas on paper, add a list of "pros" and a list of "cons"
- see how many ideas you can come up with. Be sure to consider if
there are any consequences that might occur as a result of leaving
baby behind. Most experts agree that whenever it is possible to
take baby, baby should go. This is because the most likely time
for baby to wean prematurely is between 6 - 12 months of age. While
there are no current studies available, many lactation consultants
will tell you in their practices they see this, so it is something
parents should give thorough consideration.
Are there benefits to bringing baby along?
Absolutely! The most obvious benefit is no separation between mother
and baby. No need to worry about emotional separation, or physical
discomforts, etc. In addition to this, it is beneficial to family
to remain together and do things together "as" a family
unit. Most experts agree that the more activities the family does
together, the healthier and stronger the family unit is.
Another benefit may be a subtle one, but is a benefit
all the same. Many times at family functions older generations truly
enjoy seeing the toddlers and babies. There is a something special
about seeing older generations and new generations come together.
Be respectful but firm about your beliefs in attending
functions as a family, if you choose not to attend a function. A
nice note, and even family photo sent often is all that is needed
for others to understand.
What are the risks in leaving baby behind?
It is important to consider any possible consequences of leaving
baby. Knowing the possible risks can help reduce or even eliminate
possible problems. Mothers are often told that "baby will be
just fine" - but most people never really consider the downside
of leaving a breastfed baby behind. Some of the possible drawbacks
may include:
~premature weaning
Premature weaning should always be considered as a possibility.
Babies and mothers were not "meant" to be separated prior
to weaning age. Some babies do remarkably well with brief separations,
but have difficulty with longer separations. Other babies have difficulty
with even the briefest separations. Careful consideration should
be given to the age of your baby, to the personality of your baby,
and to the circumstances surrounding the trip.
The risk of premature weaning may be increased
with use of bottles, for example. If baby is old enough, a cup may
be preferred over a bottle. If baby is younger, the use of bottles
may be the most convenient method of feeding baby, but not necessarily
the "best" method. Consideration should be given to alternative
methods of feeding baby.
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~separation anxiety
All babies (and all moms) experience separation anxiety at one time
or another. Separation anxiety is defined as, in simplest terms;
the distress a baby feels when separated from his/her primary caregiver,
usually mother. Most parents "see" separation anxiety
clearly beginning at around six months, but it can be evident much
sooner. Babies have a strong attachment to mother, and it causes
them great distress to be separated from her. Separation anxiety
can coincide with what experts call Object Permanence. Object permanence
is when baby begins to remember objects and specific people that
are not present. Because baby cannot understand yet the concept
of time, he/she doesn't understand that mother will be back. All
baby understands is that mother is gone.
Being separated from mom unnecessarily can result
in a very unhappy, anxious (fussy) baby. Some babies sort of "shut
down" when they miss mom, and are mistaken for being a "good"
baby. (all babies are good babies!!) But, what "really"
may be happening is that baby may be interpreting mom being gone
as rejection. Frequent separations may disturb the attachment relationship,
and babies may even begin doubt their mother's availability and
responsiveness.
~reduction in milk supply
Many moms experience a drop in milk supply when separated from baby.
This is usually temporary, and is due to pumping instead of the
usual direct nursing. Some mothers may not find this a drawback,
however, consider that baby may well be ready to nurse "non-stop"
when she returns home, and having a lower supply may cause a few
initial rough days for both mom AND baby.
~engorgement, plugged duct or mastitis
Engorgement, plugged ducts and the risk of mastitis should be considered.
If mom doesn't pump enough while away, her risk of the issues increase.
Some moms are more prone to these issues than other moms, but may
not be aware of them until she is separated from the baby because
she has always been able to pump and nurse normally and consistently.
~inconvenience in pumping, storing & transporting
ebm
Many mothers find it downright inconvenient to pump, especially
if she is not used to pumping regularly. Consideration must also
be given to storing and transporting expressed breastmilk.
Traveling Without Baby
Preparation for Mom
There are occasions that arise in which mother
does have to be away from baby, perhaps on business, or other circumstances
in which it is not possible for baby to come. The earlier mother
knows, the more time she has to prepare.
Consideration should be given to:
~age of the baby
~length of time away
~supply of milk for left at home for baby
~method of feeding while mother is away (bottles, cups, etc)
~pump and accessories so mother can maintain milk supply
~storing and transporting milk on return trip
The age of a baby is an important consideration
in traveling. Younger babies who are exclusively breastfed rely
totally on mother's milk, so mother must be sure she has provided
enough milk for the baby to have while she is gone. Younger babies
may need to rely on bottles or alternative methods for feeding milk,
while older babies (about 4 months and older) often can use cups
while mom is away. Caregivers should be instructed to continue to
use slow flow nipples and to follow your guidelines carefully.
How long mother will be gone influences how the
expressed breastmilk might be stored. If she is gone a few days,
her milk is better stored in the refrigerator than frozen. Breastmilk
is good in the refrigerator for up to eight days, and fresh milk
is always better. Mother may want to use one large container for
her milk, and have the caregiver pour into individual bottles or
cups as needed, or she may wish to provide a day or two days worth
of bottles and a container so the caregiver can prepare a days bottles
in advance. If she is gone more than a few days, she may wish to
freeze her milk. In either case if she has frozen stock already
she can use that.
To determine how much expressed breastmilk (ebm)
that baby needs while mom is away, one can use the baby's current
nursing patterns as a guideline. If baby nurses every two hours,
it is safe to assume baby would need a bottle every couple of hours.
If baby nurses every three hours, baby would need a bottle every
3 hours. If baby is older, and nurses only 4 or 5 times a day, those
would be the times in which one would offer the feeding (via cup,
whenever possible). For younger babies, who have not started solids,
one can use a breastmilk
calculator to determine approximately how much ebm baby needs
per bottle. Older babies on solids may need less breastmilk , although
most experts try to encourage mothers to offer solids in addition
to the breastmilk diet, not in place of a milk feeding.
Once it has been determined how much breastmilk
will be needed, mother can then take steps to begin storing for
the occasion. She may already have plenty of freezer stock stored
(older milk should be used first), but if not, she can increase
pumping sessions and begin storing in refrigerator, or freezing
her milk, in the amounts generally needed (i.e. 2 oz, 3 oz, or 4
oz increments) for baby. Breastfeeding experts often recommend mothers
freeze in smaller increments to avoid waste, and because the milk
thaws and warms faster than the larger amounts do.
Careful instructions should be left with the caregiver
on thawing, warming and method of feeding. These instructions should
include a note that thawed milk is only good for 24 hours, and that
breastmilk should be warmed by water method, never in microwave.
Don't take for granted that your caregiver knows; instead leave
the instructions so that there is less confusion or question about
storing, thawing, and feeding methods.
Taking along the breast pump and using it at LEAST
as often as baby nursed at home ensures mom maintains milk supply.
If baby nursed every 2 hours at home, mom should strive to pump
about every 2 hrs if at all possible. If baby usually nurses every
3 hours, mom should try to pump every 3 hrs. If mom works and has
a pumping pattern already established, she can stick to that pumping
pattern, since her body is used to it already, but add a few more
sessions in if at all possible for optimal maintenance of supply.
If the pump is an electric pump, and mother doesn't
have an adapter to use in the car, she might consider purchasing
one, as well as a battery pack. These are just handy options and
not "mandatory". (Packing an extension cord may be a wise
idea, since there are times when the electrical outlet isn't conveniently
placed). If traveling by air, mom should consider packing the pump
in her carry-on bag.
Breastmilk can be kept and stored in a cooler filled
with ice (check the ice several times a day to ensure cooler is
staying very cold). Dry Ice is always an option, but usually is
reserved for shipping expressed breastmilk. Storage options do depend
on how long mom will be gone, and what options she has available
to her during her time away as well as during her travel time. If
staying in hotel or motel, there may be a refrigerator available
to store the milk in. Be sure the temperature setting is cold enough
for proper storage.
Always give careful consideration to taking a manual
pump in the event of delays or layovers, and lack of electricity,
plenty of nursing pads, and a water bottle so you have plenty to
drink.
Additional tips for the caregiver can be found
here:
http://www.breastfeeding-basics.com/html/caregiver.htm
And information on storage and handling of expressed
breastmilk can be found here:
http://breastfeeding.hypermart.net/storagehandling.html
Preparation for Baby
When baby must be left in the care of others while
mom travels, it is important to try and prepare baby ahead of time
as much as possible. Preparation may include taking baby for frequent
visits to the caregiver's home, increasing the length of time baby
is there as the time for the trip draws near. For example, two weeks
before a trip, take baby for a two or three hour visit with the
caregiver, a couple times a week. One week before the trip, increase
the time baby is there to an "all day" visit, and see
how things go. Visits prior to the trip help both mom and caregiver
in knowing what to expect and working on any difficulties that arise
prior to the time mom must leave.
If bottles have not been introduced, but baby is
of an age where a bottle might be important, begin introducing
the bottle as soon as possible. This gives time for baby to
get used to bottles before mom has to go. If baby is older, you
may want to consider using
cups instead of bottles.
If baby refuses
the bottle, don't panic. There are many options that can be
used for feeding besides cups and bottles; it just takes a little
practice.
Be sure to leave any medications baby might need,
favorite blankets, and toys, and telephone numbers and directions
to baby's doctor as well. Most physicians and hospitals require
parental consent for treatment in the event of an emergency, so
it might be wise to leave a signed, notarized copy of consent with
the caregiver.
Finally, mom might sleep with one of baby's blankets
so that it has her scent on it and baby will smell and "feel"
her presence. Another tip is to make a voice recording of mom singing
songs, or reading a book, or just talking to baby, so that it can
be played each day for baby.
Pumping to maintain supply
It is important to remember when traveling without
baby to pump on a regular basis, to maintain milk supply. Most breastfeeding
experts suggest pumping at LEAST as often as baby usually nurses,
but sometimes this is not possible. Most mothers do fine pumping
about every 3 hours during the day, and perhaps once at night, while
away from baby. It may help to keep a picture of baby nearby, while
pumping, and to practice relaxation techniques to make pumping easier.
Additional tips and pumping information can be reviewed here:
http://breastfeeding.hypermart.net/breastpumpingtips.html
http://www.kellymom.com/bf/pumping/pumping_decrease.html
TIPS FOR TRAVELING:
By Car, With Baby:
Breastfed babies are very portable, and this makes
traveling with them very easy. The easiest way to plan a trip is
to allow and incorporate about 20 - 30 min every two to three hours
(depending on age of baby) to nurse. At first this may seem very
inconvenient, but if one is being practical one can see that it's
very beneficial for all other parties involved as well.
Stopping every 2 - 3 hrs allows the driver to get
out and walk a bit, relieving any cramped feeling or road stress/weariness,
and also gives everyone opportunity to get a drink, get a snack,
and go to the restroom. This actually makes the trip go much smoother
than racing the clock to get somewhere by "x" time. Be
flexible and take time to enjoy the brief stops.
If planning a trip that is more than a day long,
consider starting the trip early, and stopping earlier in the evening
- say by 6 or 7 pm. This gives baby and everyone else time to "unwind"
before bedtime.
Taking a cooler and a manual breastpump (or electric
one with adapter to use in car) can be helpful if baby sleeps a
long stretch and mom is needing to express milk, or if there is
some reason that it might be difficult to stop, so mom can pump
and offer a bottle or ebm via cup if needed. (Mother can certainly
express manually as well)
Check the ice in the cooler at each stop or every
other stop.
NOTE: Most experts agree it is not wise
to nurse baby in the car seat while the car is moving, nor is pulling
the car right along side the road (on shoulder of road) & stopping
to nurse. Try to pull into a rest area or a parking lot. If you
HAVE to pull to shoulder of the road, DO use the hazard lights to
make your car more visible, and pull as far away from edge of road
as possible.
By Car, Without Baby
If you are traveling and baby is not with you,
it is important for you to make plans to express your milk at least
every 3 or so hours. This is important to maintain milk supply.
(do not wait until you are uncomfortably full to express, as this
will signal your body to reduce production)
You can do this by hand expressing, using a manual
pump (or electric pump with adapter for use in car) while traveling
(preferably NOT when driving!!) OR you can just plan to take a 15
- 20 min break every 3 or so hours and pump in parking lot (in the
car). Again, incorporating the stops helps relieve any road stress/weariness
and gives you time to get drink, a snack, or eat, and use restroom.
Freshly expressed milk may be stored at temperatures
slightly below room temperature (such as in a cooler with icepacks
) for up to 24 hours. If the milk has been kept at room temperature
prior to being placed into the cooler, safe storage time in the
cooler may be decreased somewhat.
By Plane - With Baby
Probably the most important tip one can offer when
discussing airline travel with (or without) baby is to arrive early!
Arriving early, by as much as 2 hours before flight, can help in
finding airline personnel to help with questions or concerns, and
it can also give you time to relax and nurse baby a bit prior to
boarding and take-off.
Most airlines have a restriction on the amount
of "carry on" luggage. It may help to try to condense
items needed to one bag, and packing the rest in your regular luggage.
Many moms find it helpful to place wallet and other necessary items
from her purse or handbag into the diaper bag, and packing her purse
if she takes it at all.
Baby items can be checked onto the plane with other
luggage, or if you prefer, you can bring it to the departure gate
and have it checked there so that it is available as soon as you
land. An example of one item you might want to have checked at the
gate is baby's stroller. Doing so allows you to make use of the
stroller right up until you get to the boarding gate.
It is suggested to purchase a seat so you don't
have to worry about there not being an "extra" seat available.
You could check the carseat at the gate if you needed, and they
could probably give you an idea if there were extra seats when you
check your baggage. Give the car seat to the flight crew to gate
check it as you board, they will then give it right back to you
as you deplane. Just make sure they ticket it with your name
To increase possibility of getting a seat for baby
without actually booking a seat, check to see which flights to your
destination have the lowest number of passengers, and book your
flight on one of those. Ask to be seated in an aisle seat with an
empty seat between you and the person "next" to you, or
if you are traveling with others, one of you ask for aisle seat
the other a window seat with an empty seat between you. These middle
seats are usually the last to fill up and many times there is an
empty seat left that you can use for baby. Rear seats, at the back
of the plane are also slow filling and may be something to consider.
Or you can simply ask the agents at the gate if they can get you
next to an empty seat. However, if you really want to ensure you
have a seat, just book one. (you can use the car seat to strap baby
in his or her own seat)
If mother is exclusively pumping, and the need
arises to warm a bottle of expressed breastmilk while at the airport,
go to one of the food places in the airport (there are almost always
places within a short distance of your gate), right before your
flight starts boarding. Ask the food place for a coffee cup to put
some hot water in to warm a bottle. (If you bring the bottle with
you and show it to them, chances are they won't charge you for the
cup as if you were trying to "steal" a cup of coffee or
tea!) Then just put the bottle in the cup of hot water and by the
time you board the plane, it will be warm. Another option is to
run the hot water faucet in the ladies room near the gate on the
bottle until it was warm enough.
Warming a bottle, if needed, prior to boarding
the plane will help ensure the bottle stays warm until it's ready
to be used during flight, if it's a short distance flight. On a
longer distance flight you can ask the flight attendant to bring
you a cup of hot water to warm the bottle.
Other tips include:
~Getting a window seat on the plane for more privacy,
and for something to lean on.
~Ask the flight attendant for a couple pillows
as soon as you find your seat (or look for them in the overhead
bins) so you can position yourselves more comfortably during nursing.
Stuff a pillow (or something) in the opening between the seats,
and/or between the seat and side of plane to prevent baby from dropping
toys under the seats, it can be pretty dirty under the seats!
~Consider using a sling or baby carrier like the
Baby Bjorn - it may be easier than dealing with a bulky stroller
~ Check as much baggage as you can so you don't
have to struggle with it within the terminals.
~ Try to nurse during takeoff and landing (minimizes discomfort
to ears when cabin pressure changes). (A sleeping baby doesn't need
to be wakened to nurse)
~ Pack distractions for baby, a new toy or books for example (magnadoodles
and scribble pads are great for older babies)
~ Instead of traditional diaper bag, consider a
backpack for essentials to keep your arms free while moving through
the airport
~ Consider scheduling the flight around a time
when the baby usually naps if possible
For tips on traveling by plane with multiples, click here
By Plane - Without Baby
When traveling by plane without baby, be sure to
have your pump and all accessories in one area, and keep with, or
in, carry-on bag. Pack a couple spare parts that might be needed,
such as small valves or membrane flaps. You can save and store your
milk, or you can discard it.
X-rays at security checkpoints will not harm expressed
breastmilk. Be sure to take instruction booklet if you have it,
along with the breastpump - it makes it much easier to "explain"
what your pump is to anyone who has never seen a breastpump!
NOTE: A few moms have reported that you
will be required (depending on how strict the personnel is at the
security checkpoint) to taste your breastmilk- whether it is frozen
or liquid. In the event this should happen, have a small Dixie type
cup on hand so that you can pour just a bit into it. Doing so prevents
waste and reduction of storage time from having to drink from milk
container. You might call the airline you will be using and ask
them their particular policy on this issue, prior to your flight.
By Bus - With Baby
Greyhound is probably one of the most popular bus
lines, and they do offer discounts for children. The current policies
for traveling Greyhound include:
~ One (1) child who has not reached his or her
second (2nd) birthday when accompanied by a passenger 15 years of
age or older will be carried free when not occupying a seat to the
exclusion of another passenger.
~ Children who have not reached their second (2nd)
birthday and will be occupying a seat to the exclusion of another
passenger, will be charged forty percent (40%) less than the full
adult fare increased where necessary to end in a "0" or
"5" when accompanied by a passenger paying the full adult
fare.
These and other important Greyhound policies regarding
children can be found at the Greyhound website. (http://www.greyhound.com/)
under "Children's Fares"(in the FAQ section)
Another national busline is the Trailways
Transportation System, however if you are traveling a short distance,
you may have a local bus line that travels within a specific area.
Check your local yellow pages listings for bus lines that might
cover any shorter travel distances you may need to go, and check
on their policies regarding traveling with children.
By Bus - Without Baby
Pack light. Consider using a backpack to carry
"on board' items that you might need during your traveling
time, including your pump. You might opt for a back seat for more
privacy in the event pumping in the bus restroom is uncomfortable
or impossible. You might bring a sweater or shawl that you could
use to discretely cover with during a quick pumping session, should
you be unable to use restroom.
If traveling short distance, you may not need to
pump on the bus. If traveling a long distance, you may need to pump,
but there are often stopping points in which you may be able to
pump off the bus (i.e. restaurants, filling stations, etc.) Check
with the bus line about stopping points and times so you know ahead
of time what to expect.
By Train - With Baby
AmTrak - Children under the age of two ride for
free. It is usually suggested that you travel in a private sleeper
car (only certain trains have this accommodation), this way you
have privacy for you and your baby, and don't have to worry about
disturbing other passengers, or other passengers disturbing you.
You can travel in coach, but of course there will be other people
around.
Do note there are no seat belts on trains so you wouldn't be able
to use a car seat. However, most passengers with infants use carrying
seats.
By Train - Without Baby
Train is an efficient and often inexpensive way
(depending on your geographical location) to travel at a more leisurely
pace. Be sure to pack a manual breast pump, along with your electric
pump if you have one, and a long extension cord just in case you
need it.
There is, to date, no way to store milk, other
than personal cooler that you might bring.
Shipping Breastmilk
When you are ready to ship breastmilk, call your
overnight shipping company and arrange for them to come pick it
up at their latest possible pick up time and ask to have the cooler
shipped overnight or priority overnight (with Fed-Ex this means
the milk picked up at 5pm will arrive at 8 am or by 10 am. the following
day).
Prepare the milk as follows:
~About thirty minutes before scheduled pick up
time, tightly pack the bottom and sides of the cooler with a layer
of crumpled up newspaper.
~Place frozen breastmilk in the cooler, packed
as closely in the middle as possible, and then stuff every bit of
extra space with more crumpled up newspaper.
~Close the cooler and tape it shut with packing
tape. You can sign your name over an area where the tape connects,
to ensure that the cooler has not been opened and the contents are
intact and untouched.
~When the milk arrives at its destination, it should
immediately be placed in the freezer.
When shipping milk in this manner, it should arrive
still solid. Occasionally it will arrive "slightly thawed",
but containing ice crystals. As long as there are ice crystals in
the breastmilk it may be refrozen. Larger amounts of frozen milk
often arrive frozen solid. Packing milk tightly together with plenty
of newspaper filling up all available space helps ensure the milk
remains frozen.
NOTE: Before shipping milk this way, try
testing it out with regular cow's milk. Pack the cooler with frozen
bagged cows milk and newspaper, as if you were shipping it. Close
the cooler and leave it alone for 12 to 24 hours, or for a few hours
past how long you believe it will take for the milk to get to its
destination. Doing so will help you be sure you are packing the
milk correctly, and allow you to make any adjustments needed to
ensure your milk arrives safely.
More here:
http://skylane.kjsl.com/~cee/kin.htm
Dry Ice
5Llbs of dry ice lasts 12 hours, 10 Llbs lasts
24 hours, and 15 Llbs lasts 36 hours.
http://www.dryiceinfo.com/shipping.htm
http://waltonfeed.com/grain/faqs/ivb1.html
Coolers
The type of cooler a mom uses depends on her traveling
situation. If baby is traveling with her, she may not need a large
cooler, instead using a "personal" cooler like a "six
pack" cooler, or even lunch bag cooler. Some breastpumps, like
the Medela PIS Traveler, come with a little individual cooler that
is very handy. The main concern is to check frequently to make sure
the cooler is staying cool, keeping the breastmilk at an appropriate
temperature.
If mom is not traveling with baby, she may need
a larger cooler in which to store her milk. This probably doesn't
need to be excessive in size, but large enough to hold her store
of expressed breastmilk. She may choose to ship the milk home, using
Styrofoam coolers instead. It just depends on her individual traveling
circumstances.
Do note that "dry runs" (prior to her
trip) with coolers can be done, and probably should be done so that
mom knows what to expect. In doing so, she can determine if she
has the right cooler for her current situation, and make any adjustments
necessary before she actually travels.
Things to Consider Taking When Traveling With
Baby
A few things you might want to consider taking
along, or make sure you have plenty of, when traveling with baby
(travel sizes are great, but you can also fill small bottles and
use Ziploc baggies):
- Extra diapers (cost a lot at airports and convenience
stores)
- baby wipes
- diaper cream (Balmex, Desitin, etc.)
- Q-tips (travel size is great, otherwise in Ziploc
baggie)
- baby shampoo
- baby bath
- baby lotion
- thermometer
- infant pain reliever
- nasal aspirator
- baby sunscreen
- baby hat to shade from sun
- bibs (cloth, or the disposable ones)
- Baby's favorite blanket and/or stuffed animal
or toy
- Quart-sized ziploc bags and a travel-sized can
of Lysol for dirty diapers
- Trial-sized hand sanitizing gel like Purel,
or travel sized sanitizing wipes
- Cup, bottle brush & small dish detergent
- Extra pacifier if baby uses them
- Backpack with baby's toys, books, games, etc.
and puzzle book or reading book for mom
- Swim diapers, baby life jacket or floaties
- night light and extension cord
- small notebook (spiral) for journal/diary or
notes
- camera, or one-time use camera
- travel first aid kit, antibiotic ointment, bottle
of Benadryl, and plenty of Band-Aids
- childproofing items - a few examples may include:
electrical outlet covers, external cabinet locks(rubber bands
often will work well), doorknob covers (helps prevent older babies
from opening doors)
- Larger items might include infant seat and stroller,
which are mentioned frequently, but also a port-a-crib.
Returning Home - The Reconnection
While many babies resume nursing like they were never apart, it
is also perfectly normal for things to be slightly out of sync for
a few days, or even a couple weeks after mother returns home. It
may take a while for mom and baby to settle back into a familiar
pattern. Baby may be extra clingy for several days to several weeks,
but as things settle once again into a familiar pattern, and baby
feels more secure, this clinginess should resolve. Mom might want
to consider taking a day or two to "reconnect" with baby
- doing very little for a couple days aside from being with baby
and nursing often. Being patient, giving lots of cuddles and hugs,
can help baby settle back in much faster.
Some babies may balk
at nursing after being apart from mom, even if it's only been
a few days. In the event this happens, mom should put in a call
to an experienced lactation consultant and continue to gently offer
the breast. Most often with gentle encouragement babies will accept
the breast and resume nursing as normal within a few days.
Links:
http://www.suite101.com/article.cfm/breastfeeding_retired/7751
http://www.babycenter.com/refcap/7157.html
http://allsands.com/Travel/Kids/travelingwithb_unf_gn.htm
http://www.wyethnutritionals.com/Baby/care4baby_travel.htm
http://www.bluesuitmom.com/travel/family/infanttravel.html
http://members.tripod.com/~bmsg/aileen.htm
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